Comments on: Willpower! Going from Debt & Addiction to Automation & Success

By: Matt Jabs

Matt Jabs — Sat, 26 Feb 2011 15:29:46 +0000

GA will probably help, but be sure you read the bible daily. Your addiction will never go away so renewing your commitment daily is the key. Godspeed and God bless.

By: De

De — Sat, 26 Feb 2011 00:57:54 +0000

I stumbled onto your blog while visiting a gambling info site, of all things. I really appreciate the things you wrote about in dealing with addiction, and I do believe in the Bible.
Long story-short, I feel like I have no excuse. I’ve been to GA meetings, have talked with people who are reformed gamblers, have tried to replace the thrill of a possible win with other, more meaningful things, and have prayed desperately for a way to stop the cycle. Just when I think that I have the addiction under control, I cave-in and buy a winning scratch off and it all starts up again!
I went from being a big winner at a casino years ago, to buying scratch offs now in hopes of making ends meet with winners. I am now unemployed, alone, broke and too numb or embarrassed to say anything to anyone. I hadn’t realized how I’ve slipped back into the rut until I read your post.
Thank you, Brian.

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Addiction Self Help — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 15:46:21 +0000

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By: Jose Paclibare | Christian business

Jose Paclibare | Christian business — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 02:47:41 +0000

What an inspiring story Brian! Thanks too Matt for your note: “The bible holds untold wisdom for those struggling with addiction, as well as for those looking to achieve great things. Do not forget to consult this invaluable resource!”

As a Christian, I recognize that the so-called “willpower” may not be enough for me. But I firmly stand on God’s truth that “I can do all things through Jesus Christ who gives me strength”.

God bless you Brian and Matt.

Jose O. Paclibare

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By: Ken

Ken — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 13:55:02 +0000

Hats off to you for listening to your brother and choosing a different path for your life. I have family members who have and still struggle with addictions and it is no easy task. Keep your time spent on the right things and you’ll continue to succeed. My family member once told me that you don’t have to change must to overcome addiction, just “everything” Have a great Thanksgiving.

By: Financial Samurai

Financial Samurai — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 22:28:14 +0000

Brian – Really good of you to kick that gambling habit. I know how hard that can be, as I have some of my own obsessive habits myself i.e. my site!

You’re dominating PF land today, great job!

By: Mrs. Money

Mrs. Money — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 20:50:48 +0000

Go, go, go! Keep up the good work! I think your attitude is amazing!

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By: Brian

Brian — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 16:42:11 +0000

@Jeff – glad you are digging the series, and happy to see you hopping from site to site

@Lydia – its amazing what us humans are capable of isn’t it?

@Kevin – i couldn’t agree more. Thanks for the compliments, and i hope it is uplifting for others.

By: Craig

Craig — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 16:33:22 +0000

Having the willpower within is key to help motivate you. On wahtever aspect of life, you need that internal drive to push you to success.

By: Kevin@OutOfYourRut

Kevin@OutOfYourRut — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 16:10:27 +0000

Inspiring story Brian! One of the advantages of weblogs like DFA is that they provide a forum–a support group if you will–for people struggling with different issues.

In the “real world” we all put on our happy faces, ask “how are you?” to people we meet–never truly caring or daring to listen to hear a serious answer–and put forth a demeanor that says “everythings just great in my life”. All of this is reinforced by so many others around us doing the same thing.

But here in the blogging world, we can come and read stories about real life struggles. Not only do these stories help us find tactics for our own struggles, but perhaps just as important, they let us know we aren’t alone with our own issues.

It takes courage and a desire to help others to write a post like this, but it’s so uplifting for so many.

By: Lydia aka Ms. MoneyChat

Lydia aka Ms. MoneyChat — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 13:55:41 +0000

awesome post. i couldn’t agree more with this line, “I firmly believe that each person has enough willpower inside of them to overcome every challenging situation they face.” ditto!

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By: Jeff

Jeff — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 12:27:46 +0000

Very well put Brian. With out the willpower to change, change will never happen. I like how you use to have “the next job” frame of mind and have changed it. The next job and the higher pay just increase the amount of debt and elevates one’s lifestyle. Without the willpower to change your habits, you would probably just be in more debt.
Great Job, on to the next post…